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We’ve all had those days—days when obligations pile up so high that meeting them feels like an impossible feat. Personally, I’ve been there. I’ve faced days when the sheer weight of responsibilities triggered panic attacks. My phone would buzz incessantly with requests, meetings filled every moment, and each meeting birthed new action items. I vividly remember waking up some mornings filled with dread, almost paralyzed by the thought of facing the day ahead.

There were even times when I felt my brain partially shut down as deadlines loomed, and incomplete projects demanded more than I had to give. The journey from those overwhelming days to a grounded, balanced approach to commitments, planning, and communication wasn’t easy. It took time, self-awareness, and growth.

But what about those moments when you’re in the thick of it and don’t have time for a complete overhaul? When you need immediate relief?

This article is your pitstop. Here are six quick stress-relief tips that can help you right now if you’re feeling overwhelmed and stretched to your limits.


  1. Master Your Breathing
  2. Get Moving
  3. Tune Into Your Favorite Jams
  4. Try Quick Stress Relievers
  5. Lean on Social Connections
  6. Practice Mindfulness

Master Your Breathing

When stress takes over, your breathing often becomes shallow and erratic. A simple breathing technique can make a world of difference.

Try the physiological sigh:

  • Take two short inhales through your nose, back-to-back.
  • Then exhale slowly and deeply through your mouth.

This method activates your parasympathetic nervous system, calming your body and mind almost instantly. Think of it as hitting the reset button for your stress response.

Get Moving

Physical activity is a natural stress reliever. It doesn’t have to be intense or time-consuming; even small movements can shift your energy.

  • At work: Step outside for a brisk walk around the parking lot or head up and down a flight of stairs.
  • At home: A quick stretch or a dance to your favorite song can do wonders.

When you move your body, you release endorphins—the feel-good hormones—which elevate your mood and help you face challenges with a clearer mind.

Tune Into Your Favorite Jams

Music has an incredible ability to shift our mood. Whether it’s a playlist of uplifting tunes, nostalgic hits, or calming instrumental pieces, music stimulates the production of dopamine, a hormone that enhances happiness.

Tip: Create a go-to playlist specifically for moments of stress. Mine includes classic RnB and dancehall jams from the ’90s and 2000s that take me back to joyful, carefree moments and energize me to keep going.

Music is more than entertainment; it’s a mood-changer that helps you reset and reframe your day.

Try Quick Stress Relievers

Sometimes, it’s the small, simple actions that bring the biggest relief.

  • Chewing Gum: Believe it or not, chewing gum can reduce cortisol (the stress hormone) and help you focus.
  • Laugh Out Loud (LOL): Laughter truly is the best medicine. Whether it’s a funny video, a meme, or a memory that cracks you up, let yourself laugh.

One of my go-to laughter triggers is a video of my cat rolling off the bed during his nap. Every single time, it gets me laughing out loud, lifting my spirits almost instantly.

Lean on Social Connections

Human connection is a powerful antidote to stress. Whether it’s a quick call with a loved one, a chat with a friend, or spending time with a pet, these interactions remind us that we’re not alone.

Practice Mindfulness

When everything feels chaotic, mindfulness helps you anchor yourself in the present. It’s about being fully aware of the here and now, without judgment.

Quick Practice: Close your eyes, take a deep breath, and focus on your senses. What do you hear? Feel? Smell? This simple act can ground you and create a moment of calm in the storm.

Final Musings

Overwhelm and stress are part of life, but they don’t have to define your days. By incorporating these quick tips, you can create small moments of relief and clarity, even during the busiest times.

Remember, these are pitstop measures, not a substitute for deeper self-work. When you have the time, it’s essential to evaluate your commitments, set boundaries, and establish routines that align with your well-being.

My Challenge to You: Pick one tip from this list and try it today. Notice how it shifts your energy and helps you feel more in control.

You’ve got this!


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